Hello, I am in my early 40's and I have 2 children and 4 grandchildren. I have been in a relationship with the same man for almost 30 years. My oldest girl is 24 and she is the reason behind me starting this blog, lol. She has 2 of my grandchildren (both boys) My youngest is 22 and she has a boy and a girl. I work at my local Wal-Mart in the deli and I a hate it but for now it pays the bills while I go to college and earn a degree in criminal justice. My partner is actually my ex-husband, I am happy to report that our divorce just did not work out. He is a few years older than I am, but we are very happy together now and are planning to remarry in a few years. I do refer to him as my Hubby and if I talk about him I call him either Hubby or my old man. We both love to ride motorcycles and we enjoy spending time alone together and with our family we usually spend a few weeks in Florida every year just in time for Bike Week. It gives us a vacation alone together and it gives us a break from Northeast Ohio winters (they really suck sometimes). My Hubby is disabled so I am the primary bread winner in our home which is how I ended up going back to school. I hate my job at Wal-Mart so I had to get it in gear and do something for my family and step into the roll as primary wage earner. I am studying Criminal Justice, my father is a career criminal so crime is in my blood (lol). I plan on becoming a parole/probation officer since I cannot pass the physical to become a cop (and do not really want to be a cop). So I am in my second year of college at Florida Tech. Hubby and I are currently raising Boxers. We have a breeder pair and in about 6 months when our female hits her second heat we will be having our first litter. We are excited and cannot wait 'til this happens. Okay so I got into kink after my daughter talked me into joining her on a different web site and I ordered some handcuffs and a flogger. Sex has come a long way in the 30 years Hubby and I have been doing it. It started off as a quickie in the back seat of the car, every time we could get away. Now it is sex if we have time, that's where this one web site came in to play I found a bunch of stuff that had us both scrambling to make time between work, kids, grandkids, and school to have sex. Sex has come a long long LONG way for the 2 of us, but we will get to all that later.